Relationships come with different ups and downs. A lot of relationships are broken because of Jealousy. They jealousy might be wrong, sometimes might happen to be true. Today, i will be sharing on the jealousy caused by social media in our today's relationship. Jealousy is a relationship threat if not checked by the man and the woman.
The jealousy of the relationship comes to light when your boyfriend/girlfriend asks that you celebrate them on your Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. This is seen as an endorsement for anyone in a relationship especially if you are the lady or the man that don't do such or haven't done it in a long time, the way youths in a relationship feel nowadays are that you share or celebrate them on your social media account. This could be by only accepting that you dating on Facebook "In a relationship with" or "engaged to" status, and when our partner tell us that social media does not determine their love, it might sounds Ok at first, but you are not completely happy with that excuse.
Jealousy increases if your man easily shares his friends that looks beautiful/cute on his own social media accounts, but always tell you excuses. You tends to question their love for you. Also a man will grow some hatred if you are not planning to share his face on your social media account, but can share some other male friends on your social media.
The truth nowadays is that social media accounts like Facebook, Twitter or Instagram are one of the endorsement of a relationship, this is a fact, unless you deny it.
So what do you do if your Boyfriend/Girlfriend keeps sharing or celebrating people on social media, but won't share you
Stop bothering them about it, asking your partner to endorse you will only show your desperation in the relationship. It might bother you, but while share them on your social media too? Don't endorse anyone that won't endorse you.
If your man keeps sharing ladies or guys online and it is making you uncomfortable, talk to them about it, it is your relationship, and you should be able to speak to each other about it. They probably won't stop as they see it as trying to control their life, make new friends too of the opposite sex and share it too, they will soon start feeling the same way you once felt.
Don't let them know you are trying to get back to them, this might cause a little crack in your relationship. Make it seem like you happy with the other individual too, this will make them jealous too and you might need to talk about the social media misuse of both parties.
Fact Only : If You have dated someone for 2 years and they still keep giving you the same excuse of diplomacy on social media, It is either your partner is not sure where the relationship will lead, you are ugly or you probably are irreplaceble, you don't know,now you know
NB : This is a personal opinion and should be used if you feel it works for you, drop a comment below for questions.
Written by Paul Daniel For Doy News