marriage stories

 Cyndi Maisonneuve

Just like every woman, it is a day Cyndi Maisonneuve will keep in her memory, it will be the start of great things, as she plans on getting married to his lover, it was a beach wedding and all was all set. This is the story of Cyndi Maisonneuve, of Toronto, Canada who was left disappointed by the man he had planned to marry on the beach, 6 years ago.

Why Cyndi and her sister were in the hotel room, getting prepared for the best day of her life, when she asked her "Are you nervous?", and she said can honestly say she wasn't. But soon, she will be more than nervous.

                        

Cyndi had met her fiance of 2 years at a baseball game, and the two, even though stayed she stayed in Toronto, 2 hours  away from his fiance in Northern Ontario, they manage to still meet every weekend as they started dating. They were both intoxicated with loving.

After 6 months of dating, the young man proposed to Cyndi. It was fine, she was only 23, they pair looks like a match, active and ambitious, and the family of Cyndi does love his personality. As they proceed for the wedding, they bought their house, even though with some little argument, they still tag along...

Fast Forward to the wedding day, they both agreed to do the wedding on a beach in Hawaii. All was set, she was fine and soon would be married. 

I was having my makeup done when my fiance walked into the room. I absent-mindedly noticed that he wasn’t dressed yet. It was 4pm, which meant he had an hour left to put his suit on. Then I noticed he was crying. I thought he must have been thinking of his mother, who had died three years ago,” Cyndi wrote.

 He took me in his arms and hugged me. I laughed and told him he was going to wreck my hair. He didn’t laugh. ‘I can’t do this,’ he said.

 He wasn’t kidding. I know, because I asked.

 My older sister took over. She has always been protective of me, and while I don’t remember what she yelled at him, it made him flee the room.

 Any illusions that he was having last-minute jitters were destroyed by opening the closets and finding that all of his things and his passport were gone, probably removed while I was at the hair salon.

I was humiliated and devastated..

I watched from our room as my sister told the vendors and 10 guests the wedding was no longer on. The memory makes me shiver.

Cyndi told The Guardian.

                

And to Cyndi's surprise, the fiance still stayed on the island after the incident, Cyndi had to call him a coward after she met him at the car park 2 days later.

The most surprising of the event was when Cyndi and her fiance met again, according to Cyndi ;

 He suggested we stay together but not get married, which I thought was astonishing. The reason he gave for calling it off was that he didn’t want children and I did. He never said why that became an irresolvable issue only on the day itself. Eventually we lost touch.

Now, six years on, I’ve started dating again. What happened is far enough in the past now not to hurt so much. I told a new friend about it recently and I realised it’s actually a pretty great anecdote. I can even laugh about it.