domestic violence stories

It was one of the most shocking news of 1993, that got men everywhere holding their breath as they read how Lorena Bobbitt cut off her then husband's penis, John Wayne Bobbitt off him, and later throw it in a nearby grassy field, a couple of miles from the house.

                     

In a recent interview, John was able to reveal the gruesome detail of the attack. He explains that on the night of the incident, he was asleep in bed when Lorena cut off his penis, and he took him few moments to realize what had happened to him.

                

John said;

I didn't know she cut it off,She did it so fast and ran so fast — I thought maybe I saw a little bit of her in my peripheral running out the bedroom door. But I looked down and there was blood everywhere. I applied pressure — I get up and try to put my pants on, and tried to get to the hospital as fast as I could.

Not able to drive, John called up a friend,Robby, who was deep asleep in their home, but not knowing what had happened, Tired Robby went to the bathroom first to try to brush his teeth, until he saw blood everywhere. John in his interview said;

I had to go get my friend up to drive me to the hospital. 'Come on, Robby! Get up — you gotta take me to the hospital. My wife cut me. He's incoherent, too — he was just like I was, so tired.

He gets up and goes to the bathroom and brushes his teeth, and he looks in the mirror and saw the blood everywhere. We flew to the hospital — we got there within 10 minutes.

In the legal battle between the former couple, Lorena claimed that John was physically and sexually abusive, slept around and took up drugs and alcohol. She said she soon suffered from battered woman’s syndrome from the treatment.

And on the night of the attack, Lorena also claimed that John had assaulted her sexually, and claimed this provoked the attack, though John claimed the couple had had consensual sex, he was tried for sexual assault and acquitted on the charge.

The couple divorced in 1995.

John penis was reattached, and was sexually active after his treatment. He later acted in some adult movies, and also made television appearances.

Lorena kept a low profile after the incident, and changed now use her maiden name. She also remarries, and started a non-profit organisation that helps women of domestic violence.

While on Steve Harvey show, Lorena also talked about what happened on that night;

I found myself in the street with a penis in one hand and the knife in the other. So yeah, that happens ... I’m here to tell you and to tell everyone what happens when a woman gets abused by a man.

We understand that my story actually has humour, but we also shed light on domestic violence, as well.

Watch the video here;

               

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Freeze of Cool FM, Nigeria had come out and speak about his personal experience with domestic violence. The radio presenter talked about how the society had tagged men to be the monster and women always the victim, but in his own case, Freeze was the victim as he shared pictures he suffered from his ex-wife.

 

Freeze encourages more men to come out and speak about their own domestic violence and not be matured or silent about it.

 

The radio presenter later shared some horrific pictures of him getting injured during his time with domestic violence.

See his tweet, read from below :

 

 

domestic violence in Vietnam

The Vietnamese netizens were outraged after a photo surfaced online of a makeup artist nicknamed DA. The photo showed the lady with bruised faces and swollen lips after being beaten by 5 different ex-boyfriends. Tragic!!!!

Lamenting on her Facebook page, the lady said she is now dating the same type of men for the 5th time, and she only shares the photos not to forget the memories of  the time she passed through. How many people can bring happiness to you? And if you do not love, it goes by. I just want to be happy like everyone else, why is heaven unfair to me? DA said.

       

The story of the young lady has gone viral among the Vietnamese netizens after the photo was uploaded, the photo had been share almost 11,000 times and counting. 

A lot of netizens have sent their encouraging words to the lady. DA is currently working as a makeup artist in Hanoi, Vietnam and is currently dating a new boyfriend who she said they had known each other for only a year, but just like the four before him, the current lover had started beating her abusing her person. She said the current lover seems to be the worst out of the four.

She had been told to breakup with the current boyfriend and to get out of violent relationship. 

                      

She finally decided to heed to the advice of the netizens and posted a new status update about her relationship, she said ; I have decided to break up, and even don't want to be friend with him anymore. I have decided to be alone, am not weak anymore. I have only posted on my Facebook to remember and I have determined to abandon this relationship, At the same time a lesson for many other girls. 

We hope the lady will find a man that will love and respect her for who she really is. 

Doy News Correspondent In Vietnam Have This To Say;

This is shocking to me, i must confess, i think the men should be arrested and woman should never be treated as punching bags. I have always believed Vietnamese men to be romantic, caring and all that lovely things we see in movies. 

I have known them to always take their girls out, and you can see them by the lakeside every evening, but what you just told me is surprising. I believe this is just a little fraction of the male Vietnamese as i believed they are not violent people.

As for the lady in question, I wish she find real love soon. Domestic violence is everywhere, people should be educated about it and learn to ride along.

Thanks (Drops phone)

Doy News

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